Wednesday, November 23, 2011

How Parents' Emotions Affect Kids

Did you know that a parent's emotions affect their kids very dramatically session Mark did you know that parents emotions can affect a kid for the rest of their lives? If you are the type of parent that wears their emotions on their sleeves, you should be careful about affecting your kids.

Kids watch their parents and take on the same attitudes as their parents. If the parent is always happy, the kit tends to be a happier person. If the parent is always frustrated or angry, the kit tends to react and is not as happy for the rest of their lives.


It is the parent's responsibility to make sure they set a good example for their kids. What does this mean? This means that every action and every emotion that is displayed by a parent needs to be censored. If you are frustrated, try to keep that frustration and. Take a step back, take a deep breath, and know that however you react your kid will learn to react the same way. If you are angry, try to take a five-minute break. Teaching your kids that a five minute break is OK will be one of the greatest lessons that your kids can learn. Do not teach them to argue were show their frustration. But, also teach them to talk about their feelings.

Many adults have said that watching their parents while they were young cause some to feel either better about themselves were worse about themselves. This is because a kid is much more influence by their parents than any adult or anyone else. As a kid, you spend the most time with your parents. The only other adult influence comes from a teacher. The teacher does not show that type of emotion. But parents, show many ranges of emotions. This is because the kid lives with you and is the first thing you see in the morning and the last thing you think about at night. Therefore when you think about your kid, think about what type of example you are setting for them. Try to always be happy. Teach them to find happiness in everything that they do and attempt.
 
They look towards their childhoods to figure that question out. They wonder why they weren't taught to do this. But, many kids are taught to do this by their parents. They are taught to react to emotions and they are taught to react to things they do by watching their parents. This is why a parents emotions are so important. If a parent is always thinking about how to find happiness, and exhibits that type of behavior, then the kid learns from that. If the parent disregards their own emotions, and does not pay attention to how they react, then the kid also learns from that.
As a parent you have a lot of responsibilities. One of the most important responsibilities is to make sure that the emotional well-being of your child is stable and secure. Don't forget that your emotions will affect your kids a lot more than you think.

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